When you live with someone for thirty years you are bound to learn a thing or two. About yourself. About the world. Some things you may like, other things you may not. And sometimes you learn a lesson that makes you a better person.
Suann travels a lot. She owns her own company and if she’s not in trial she’s looking for the next trial. Because her schedule is irregular, she makes big efforts when she’s in town. Her philosophy is simple enough - show up. Not just to the birthday celebrations or the dinners out but to the hard stuff, too. Funerals, wakes, keeping sick friends company. If she can be there she will be.
I am an introvert so showing up (in person) doesn’t come as naturally to me but I was reminded of the power of showing up during my dad’s wake and funeral. As folks walked through the doors at the funeral home and church my heart filled with love: high school friends, college friends, work colleagues (past and present), former students, everyday friends. They showed up. They helped celebrate my dad and lightened my load. And it wasn’t just those who came to the wake/funeral but also those who took the time to send a card, write an email, reach out on Facebook, donate to the scholarship fund, text. As I said in more than one thank you note, I think Wally would be a bit embarrassed by the fuss but so very happy his kids are surrounded by kindness and love. Surrounded by friends who show up.
LIFE IS RANDOM LOVE IS NOTTM
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